Monday, 16 November 2015

HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE MOVING WITH THE WRONG PEOPLE.
Knowing whether you spend your time with the right people or wrong people is necessary. Flocking with the wrong people can cause a mental injury to your being. In the same vein, hobnobbing with the right people can be divine, healthy and positive.
There is more than one way to detect if you are moving the wrong people. Some of these ways are elucidated in the subsequent paragraphs.

THEY DO NOT APPRECIATE YOUR ABILITIES.
If you are with friends that make you feel low about yourself and act as though you would not amount to anything worthy of praise, then you are with the wrong peer. In the case of the reverse, where you are appreciated, where they smile at what you do and spur you to continue to dream and achieve, you can be assured the one you pray to brought them your way.

THEY NEVER STOP BEING NEGATIVE.
Have you heard people say negative confession destroys the future? It is factual. Dear reader, no matter how good an orange is, the bad orange around it spoils it. Likewise, even if you win an award for being the most positive man stepping on the earth, the presence of negative friends around you rubs on your positiveness. You do not want that. Detach yourself while you are still intact.

YOU FEEL INFERIOR
No one is entitled to take your individuality from you. You should be loved for what and who you are. You should be able to be real around the ones you call your friends, without that cold feeling running through you. And if not, you are moving with the wrong people.

YOU FEEL GAGGED
This is just the worst. Silence sits besides you, your views remain in your heart, heard by you alone. You feel caged, in the box, trapped, that is not a good feeling, I understand it. Get out from among them if that's how you feel. You should be able to live your life speaking and spilling your views, even the most stupid thoughts.

THEY ALWAYS TELL LIES
Lies, small or big is a lie. A friend should be able to tell you the truth no matter how damaging it is. Friends say crazy things to each other, they talk in riddles and communicate well. In a situation where your friend keeps lying, if you ask me, I would say forgiving someone for the same reason all the time can be tiring; so shift from him or her.

THEY REMIND YOU OF YOUR MISTAKES
Do your friends seize every opportunity to drag you back to the past you are trying so hard to expunge from your memory? If yes, they are not the right friends.

Choose friends carefully. I have heard a thousand cases of the damage bad friends have wreaked.


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